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If God had intended man to walk, he would have given him four legs. Instead, he gave him two – one to put on either side of a horse.
- Montana Rancher
So we bought a horse of course. Our story does need some explaining though. We definitely hadn’t planned on moving to America and then buying a horse, but it did happen. It all started when I (Chrissy) had a break during the Selah, as I was finding it slightly overwhelming and just needed some time to think, pray and do some of what God had put upon my heart. I had a few days where I felt truly lonely and longed to have a horse. I thought it was just a passing longing, but I prayed about it and asked God to show me whether it was permissible or beneficial. I looked on a few horse websites from around Windsor, CO but didn’t find much that looked right.
Then one day I was looking on a website that sells all kinds of things – it even used to sell people, but we won’t broach that topic at the moment. I found a couple of horses that were for sale or for rent for a small sum. I called about one of them that was for $250, which is a quarter of the price of a ‘basic’ horse. The girl said that the horse needed some training and that the horse was quite new to a lot of things. I didn’t even mention the horse when Roy came home, as I knew he wouldn’t want to buy a horse when we were half way round the world from ‘home’. But as he questioned me on some of the events of the day, I ended up thinking ‘I may as well mention that I spoke to a girl about a horse.’ So I did, and Roy became more and more interested as I revealed the information I had received about him. We ended up calling the girl and saying could we visit and see him tomorrow. She said sure, but warned us that two other people were looking at him the next day and that whoever put money down first had him. I thought at the time, ‘that won’t be us.’
The afternoon came and we drove to a place called Berthoud, which is about half-an-hour’s drive. We got there and Roy was much more positive about it than I was. I was sure we weren’t going to get him, as he would be too slow or too crazy. But when we saw him, checked his legs and feet, watched him eat, tried a saddle on and rode him… I was amazed. Sure, he had a few things not perfect about him, but he definitely had a lot of potential. He had a nice temperament, a lovely coat, he rode with a great pace, but wasn’t too flighty. The drawbacks were that he had dry feet and he was shy around his mouth. We decided to ride him with a bit-less bridle so that we didn’t build upon his past experiences and so we didn’t continue to pull upon his mouth.
We were both thoroughly surprised when we saw him and decided he would be a perfect project horse, that I could try and train up to be easy going and good to ride, with some ground manners. We didn’t have a paddock or pasture though for him, so we bought him on the grounds that we could find a place for him to stay. We looked on a couple of websites and saw that there were a few pastures around, but not many that were close. Roy had the ingenious idea of putting an ad on the internet that we were seeking a pasture near Windsor, so we did and we got a few calls of some amazing offers. We also knew of a family that lived down the road from us who had a paddock and a couple of horses, so we decided to ask them if they were interested in having him stay. They did end up being, so we are now organizing his immunizations, so that he won’t threaten the other horses with anything he might have that they don’t.
It was amazing though how much God has provided for him. When we were going to be moving him, we were offered help with using their float/trailer by three different people. We were offered saddles by 4 different people and they were all “Aussie” saddles. We were given hay by one family who did help us transport him and sold hay by the man who has lent us the paddock for the time being. It has been an interesting journey already, even though we have only had him for a couple of weeks. The man who lent us the paddock also said we could use any of his horse stuff that he had in the shed, so a couple of things have really come in handy – some brushes, a saddle blanket and a rug which we used last night and today, as it has been raining quite a lot. I was so glad he was able to be kept warm.
I just wanted to let you know though what God has been teaching me through him, which I did not expect to ever learn through a horse. The first couple weeks we have had him, I have spent a significant amount of time with him, walking him, brushing him, cleaning the arena, checking the ground and the fence and picking weeds! The first and the last ones are the most important though – walking him and picking the weeds. He didn’t have the best ground manners and especially when he was in his own pasture, he can be funny to be around if he is eating or if he thinks we are intruding his space. He seems to have a personal bubble or something of the like. A few times he tried to nip us on the hand when we went to pat him while he was eating or grazing in the pasture. One time though, I gave him some hay and was patting him to say ‘goodbye’, but he must have thought I was going to take him away from his food, so he put his ears straight back, tried to signal that he wanted to bite me and then spun around, so his back was about to be facing me, stepping on the heel of my shoe and removing it by the twisting action. At the time, I was quite fearful and kept trying to reassure him by speaking to him, even though it was only a few seconds, but I quickly backed away and left him, feeling a little shaken, as I knew he had only just decided that it wasn’t worth kicking me.
Horses can be quite scary at times, but one has to understand that they can only communicate with humans by body language, so humans need to read the signs and listen, otherwise they could be in for it. He was giving me all the signs, just a little too quickly for me to realize how uncomfortable he was with me being near his food. He treated me much like he would another horse. I’m glad I was able to understand what was going on, but God showed me a deeper level than that. God showed me that in working with any human or animal that has been abused, that there will be times of misunderstanding and that I will need to learn to be great at forgiving. He taught me that although the horse had scared me, he only did what he had been taught and he only did what he understood. From what we have experienced with him, it seems clear that he doesn’t yet know that there are ‘nice’ humans, as well as ‘horrible’ ones. We are hoping to teach him that some people are there for his good and not harm and that we long to love him and not abuse him, as others may have done.
We still have a long journey to go with this horse, but I look forward to seeing how he turns out. Oh and by the way, we named him Jashobeam (“B” for short) – which is one of David’s mighty men from the Bible (1 Chron 11:11). Hope you enjoyed the story and have fun seeing the pictures of him!
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A good rider can hear his horse speak to him, a great rider can hear his horse whisper, but a bad rider won’t hear his horse even if it screams at him.
A horse is like a best friend. They`re always there to nuzzle you and make your life a better place.
























































































































































































































